I...honestly don't think I did anything much, beyond being present while she figured it out for herself.
I as good as invited her to do that. I'm still sorry you saw it.
[A slightly brittle pause.]
...We spoke more during the flood than I expected us to. I hadn't realized that my lack of emotional expression frustrated her so much.
Almost certainly.
I'm...mostly mentioning this because I don't know if you've minimized your own concerns, on that front.
After dinner? Nine.
Let's watch a movie and then...see how we feel.
[he's not scheduling sex but you know what it's definitely happening]
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Date: 2020-08-10 01:06 am (UTC)I...honestly don't think I did anything much, beyond being present while she figured it out for herself.
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Date: 2020-08-10 01:10 am (UTC)[Not his fondest memory, but his tone is warm all the same.]
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Date: 2020-08-10 01:22 am (UTC)I as good as invited her to do that. I'm still sorry you saw it.
[A slightly brittle pause.]
...We spoke more during the flood than I expected us to. I hadn't realized that my lack of emotional expression frustrated her so much.
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Date: 2020-08-10 01:34 am (UTC)I guess that makes sense. She's kinda big on emotional expressions herself - probably feels a little adrift not being able to read yours.
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Date: 2020-08-10 02:06 am (UTC)Almost certainly.
I'm...mostly mentioning this because I don't know if you've minimized your own concerns, on that front.
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Date: 2020-08-10 02:34 am (UTC)I haven't. Yeah, you can be kind of hard to read, Elijah, but if you need me to know what you're feeling, then I trust you to tell me. And if I need to ask you, then I will.
I trust you.
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Date: 2020-08-10 02:54 pm (UTC)...Stay over tonight?
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Date: 2020-08-10 03:05 pm (UTC)What time shall I come over?
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Date: 2020-08-10 03:25 pm (UTC)After dinner? Nine.
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Date: 2020-08-10 10:22 pm (UTC)[Hang out being vague enough terminology that it could cover a multitude of options...]
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Date: 2020-08-10 10:26 pm (UTC)Let's watch a movie and then...see how we feel.
[he's not scheduling sex but you know what it's definitely happening]