[Rhys suggests, lightening up on the scratch, but not letting Betelgeuse up. Instead he trails his fingers lightly over the spot he just scratched-- riiiight up until he pauses.]
Oh-- hey, we should pick a safeword. So you can complain all you want but I'll only stop if I know you actually want me too.
[God damn, you make it hard to stay in character as a cold hard top when you're so deeply adorable, Betelgeuse.]
It's like-- an emergency stop word for sex. Like, we should probably start with red, yellow, green? Green means keep going, yellow means you don't want to stop but you feel kind of weird and might want to slow down, and red means you want to stop.
[He admires the other man under him, watching as Betelgeuse snuggles in close.]
That way, you can say anything else you want-- call me an asshole, complain all you want and I'll just keep pushing back and bullying you, but if you actually want me to slow down, or there's something you don't like, you say the safe word, and we'll stop.
You gotta have a bunch of bad sex before you figure out you should talk about this stuff in advance.
[Rhys says, blithely ignoring the fact that he didn't bother making Betelgeuse negotiate boundaries with him when he was the only one of them that was breakable.]
So... green?
[His tone is warm, gently encouraging, as he slips his hand back into Betelgeuse's hair to give it a very gentle tug.]
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Date: 2020-10-04 02:06 am (UTC)[He yelps, probably far too loudly and dramatically for the incident at hand, and squirms underneath Rhys.]
Jesus Christ, cut your nails once in a while, you could stab a badger with those things!
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Date: 2020-10-04 02:28 am (UTC)[Rhys suggests, lightening up on the scratch, but not letting Betelgeuse up.
Instead he trails his fingers lightly over the spot he just scratched-- riiiight up until he pauses.]
Oh-- hey, we should pick a safeword. So you can complain all you want but I'll only stop if I know you actually want me too.
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Date: 2020-10-04 02:32 am (UTC)Oh right, sure. Sure. What's a safeword?
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Date: 2020-10-04 02:45 am (UTC)It's like-- an emergency stop word for sex. Like, we should probably start with red, yellow, green? Green means keep going, yellow means you don't want to stop but you feel kind of weird and might want to slow down, and red means you want to stop.
[He admires the other man under him, watching as Betelgeuse snuggles in close.]
That way, you can say anything else you want-- call me an asshole, complain all you want and I'll just keep pushing back and bullying you, but if you actually want me to slow down, or there's something you don't like, you say the safe word, and we'll stop.
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Date: 2020-10-04 02:48 am (UTC)[he says, again without much idea of what he wants in this body just yet]
Look at you, being the experienced human.
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Date: 2020-10-06 02:22 am (UTC)[Rhys says, blithely ignoring the fact that he didn't bother making Betelgeuse negotiate boundaries with him when he was the only one of them that was breakable.]
So... green?
[His tone is warm, gently encouraging, as he slips his hand back into Betelgeuse's hair to give it a very gentle tug.]
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Date: 2020-10-07 03:50 pm (UTC)It is my favorite color, after all.